Love at first sight: what should i do?

yes you are a.... well, not a BAD person, but a selfish thoughtless person who is very immature... you are not ready to settle down with any woman yet.. this one or the other one or one you have not met yet.. there is no such thing as love at first sight.. only infatuation and LUST at first sight. you cannot be in love with someone you do not understand or properly know. if you loved your partner you wouldnot have cheated on her and fancied the other one, so you do not love your partner and it is silly to think of ever marrying her. if you loved this new one you would not still be with your partner.