Monday, December 19, 2011

Left Out with nothing. Any ysis, what can be done now?

I'm afraid there is nothing you can do. Somehow you built this idea of a perfect girl in your head, and went around trying to find ways of making her fit your ideal. You are not in love (sorry) but infatuated, which is far more obsessive as you are not seeing her as she really is. I'm really sorry and i know you don't want to hear this, or listen to this but i doubt she wants to even be friends, ever. You came on way too strong, and from her point of view you are scary, maybe even a little dangerous. It would be so much better for you to let her go, she is not right for you, she is not your perfect girl, if she was she would have responded in kind. Instead she tried to ignore you when you showed your interest. Don't let this get any further out of control, if you carry on contacting her you could be in trouble for stalking, and you are certainly haring her. Tell her that if she wants to get in touch she can contact her, then leave her alone. I doubt she will come back but it is impossible for you to move on while contacting her. Once you've told her you'll leave any future contact up to her delete any numbers/message addresses you have for her. Don't sit around and wait for her, it will drive you crazy and you obviously have so much to give. Good luck

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